Category: Community (Page 4 of 5)

4 Ways I Plan to Contribute to Building Community

community

Over the last several years I have had three different blogs, each with decidedly different goals. My last blog, TheWholeMan.co, was focused on helping men find healing and wholeness in Christ. You can read about how TWM ended HERE. But, after a year of writing toward that purpose, I realized that God had been moving my heart toward encouraging and helping other Christians build healthy and lasting community centered on Jesus Christ. My friends and I have coined it Gospel Centered Community (GCC).

Since August, when I stopped writing on TWM, I have spent a lot of time thinking about the focus and goal of this website. Here is what I want BrucePagano.com to be focused on:

Build and help others build lasting Gospel Centered Community (GCC).

For so many being a part of a church is simply attending a Sunday event. When I read the bible I don’t see church defined as someplace the followers of Jesus go to learn about Him. Instead I read about a community of believers that have committed to following Him, together, in their daily lives. There is so much more that needs to be said about what community centered on Jesus could and should looked like, but there will be plenty of opportunity to flesh that out in future posts. In the meantime, I want to focus on building and helping others to build lasting community.

Here are four ways at this blog will promote that:

1. Sharing our journey toward building GCC.

This past November I left the church, where I was on staff, so that I could answer God’s call to build community in our neighborhood. My wife and I discussed this for months before my last Sunday on staff. Every time we talked about it there was a recurring theme of “live where you live.” So we are going to do that. Over the next couple years we plan to really live where we live. We will shop; work and build a church community all near our home. We will engage our neighbors, prayer walk our neighborhoods and really make it a point to intentionally invest in relationships with those around us. As we do that and learn, I will share it on this blog.

2. Encouraging others in their pursuit of Jesus.

I am confident that community is one of the primary vehicles in which we experience healing and wholeness in Jesus. Because of that, the focus of a lot of what I write will be on encouraging others to really go after following Jesus. My hope is that what I write challenges us, as a community, to grow deeper into our relationship with Jesus and each other.

3. Contributing to the God’s story in healthy and beneficial ways.

God continues to write the story of humanity. It is a beautiful story that we get to be a part of. Everything that we create fits into His story; some in helpful ways and some in hurtful ways. My intention is that anything I contribute to that story is both healthy and beneficial to the Christian community, who are trying to share that story with others.

4. Inviting others into the conversation about what it means to live in GCC

I don’t pretend to know everything there is to know about building community, loving God or loving and serving others. Sometime I actually do all of those rather poorly. What I do know is I want to learn to love God and my neighbors better, and the key to that is community. I also know there are others who are farther along in their journey, in some or all of those areas. Because of that, I want to invite others to join me in the conversation about what it means to live in community with others. If you have questions, ask. If you have wisdom, share. Either way, I would love for you to join me.

I am excited about this new journey and even more excited to help others build lasting community.

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As a Christian, You Have to Go First

Go first

We live in turbulent times. At every turn it seems a new calamity befalls us. People are quick to use tragedies as an opportunity to press their agenda – and prove their view – insisting they are the most correct.

At best this is disheartening. Closer to reality, this response is soul crushing. One of the saddest aspects is what I see in my newsfeed, from my tribe, my fellow Christians. I see my people trying to prove how right they are. What I see running rampant is pride of historical privilege.

Our heritage

Throughout the last 1500 to 1800 years, Christianity has been the religion of choice for entire countries. Christianity was often married to the state. Americans have enjoyed this privilege. It is only within the last 30 to 50 years that we have felt challenged. Because of our longstanding connection to using our religion to shape governments, it has been engrained in us that whatever our view is, it is correct.

A serious problem occurs when the need to be right is our first concern. When our rights become first, discounting people becomes easy. It becomes easier to dismiss hurting and broken people. Politicizing our religion, for the sake of being right, suggests we believe our commission from Jesus was to be right. Unfortunately, there is almost nothing more contrary to the work of Christ.

Jesus and your rights

When I read the Bible, I cannot find any directive that encourages Christians to hold tightly to the principle of being right. Instead what I read are passages like Philippians 2:3, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves,” Matthew 18:22, when speaking of how often to forgive, Jesus said, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times,” Matthew 5:9, Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God,” and Matthew 5:39, “But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.”

The Gospel message is flooded with ideas like this. Jesus never said to stand up for our “rights” at the cost of loving people. In fact, everything that He said opposed that view. He said things like “the first will be last and the last will be first.” He was not talking about the monetarily rich or poor. He was talking about the proud and the humble. Jesus’ entire view of ministry is spelled out in Mark 10:45 when He said, “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Our Real agenda

At the end of the day, if you are a Christian, tragedy is not an occasion for you to push your agenda. It is actually the perfect time to push Jesus’ agenda; which is serving and loving people. Even more, you must begin before a tragic event. Loving people must be interwoven into our daily life. So much so, that Jesus’ agenda becomes our response – to every situation. I am not suggesting that we disengage from the political arena, because the Gospel is intended to change hearts. And through the change of hearts, we may have the opportunity to influence governments and cultures. Everything begins with engaging people.

And it does not matter what group you think I am talking about. Pick one: LGBTQ, Democrats, Republicans, Muslims, etc. Regardless of the existing issues between Christians and any of those groups, someone has to close the gap. Someone must go first.

Because of who we are in Christ, and who we chose to follow and call Lord, we go first. We get to go first. We always go first. When it comes to love and compassion, we go first. We are to be Christ to everyone who comes into contact with us. The privilege to represent Him should compel us to go first – with no agenda but His. Go first, without concern for being right, and instead carry the desire to serve, not to be served.

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The Good Men Project Article – May 22, 2016

Yesterday The Good Men Project published a second article I wrote for them. It’s an important subject if you’re a Christian. At first glance it may look like the article is about the Transgender bathroom issue, but that’s only a surface level issue. The real topic behind the article is fear and how we, as Christians, should approach it. Thanks for reading and as always, healthy dialogue is always welcome.

A Christian Dad Sounds Off on the Lies About Transgender People and Restrooms

Transgender

If you had to explain it to someone from another country, what would you tell them appears to be the biggest issues facing our country? Our economy? The millions of people who live in poverty? Our hard broken justice system? The fact that a crazy misogynist has grabbed the GOP nomination essentially unchallenged? Nope, nope, nope and nope. Oddly, you would likely be closer if you said our biggest issue, especially within the conservative Christian camp, is whether a person should be able to use the bathroom of the gender with which they identify. Realistically this has been a point of contention and debate in one form or another for quite a few years, with instances like bakers refusing to make cakes for same gender weddings, the push to legalize same gender marriage, local government officials refusing to execute their civic duty when it comes to issuing said marriage licenses and a myriad of other rights that members of the LGBTQ community are working toward gaining. And in all that, Christians have been some of the loudest voices of opposition.

Read more [HERE]

 

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